On these pages are my personal observations and insights into the Filipino culture. This does not mean that it applies to every Filipino - nor does it mean that I am right about these observations. These are just general observations and conclusions about the culture based upon my experiences. Please, take it as just that. Some of these are broad generalizations that again, are just based upon my personal experiences. Some of this is intended to be presented with humor, so I hope no one takes it the wrong way or is offended.

The strange “Will you join me to eat” invitation that you should refuse.

You give a gift, but they don’t seem excited to open it. What’s Up?

Why are the elders always taking younger people’s temperatures with the back of their hands??

Umbrella’s without rain? Worrying about dark armpits? Bleaching creams?

Girls can hold other girls hands, but watch out if you are a guy.

The frustrating, but all important concept of “the middle man”.

Who is that tagging along on the date?

Matchmaker, matchmaker make me a match.

Why is that guy telling me bad news with a huge smile on his face? Is he cruel?

Why didn’t she say hello? She did, didn’t you see her eyebrows?

It is so hot here, why aren’t there more people in shorts??

The dreaded favor cycle of Utang Na Loob (aka Scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours harder).

Beauty Pageants.

Yes means... yes... no.. perhaps... may be... lets talk about it later...

You are ashamed? I though you were shy...

What happens when you visit someone who is sick.

Show up on time to a party, and you seem greedy.

You don’t have to eat everything put in front of you, but they will still put it in front of you..